This happen a long time a go about ten yrs i was 4 then and now iam 14 well was in the room with my mom it was about 4am she was sleeping i was woking up by a movment on the bed so i looked at the foot of the bed and i saw a man so we started to talk then my baby cousin started to cry and my mom got up theman left so i fallow my mom when i went into the living room i saw a painting and i said mommmy thats the man that was in my room she look at the picture and startes to cry she said its was my grandfather and he died 18 year ago now i know that every year on the janury 13 he vists one of his grand kids i forgot to mention he died on the 13 of jan. Thank you